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By Guest Author On May 24, 2011 Under Improve Your Self Esteem, Law of Attraction, Self Help Tips, Setting Goals, Success Secrets

What makes someone charismatic ?

I was having a conversation the other day with a associate and imagined what is it that makes have charisma ?

One argument someone was having was about a thought on why no British politicians seem to have the same quality of charisma as American politicians , like Obama?

The other somebody thought this a really odd thing to say as they didn’t opine Obama was at all charismatic but found the British political leaders highly charismatic.

distinctly at some level charisma is a highly individual thing.

There is nobody in the entire populace that everyone ~we all~ all people} would view as charismatic, however in reality anyone can grow charisma which could positively shape their interactions and success.

If you have an big picture that requires communicating with other people, Developing your charisma can be a totally important tool.

So what is charisma?

Charisma is largely about authority and conviction.

When you consider about some of the most successful entrepreneurs, you probably would muse upon most of them have what most people call charisma.

The question is – did the charisma make them successful, or does their success give them charisma?

Successful people (who get there through their own work!) have a actually clear focus. They know their outcome and don’t get distracted. They are totally determined and flexible – if you only have one way of doing   something , it can not work – you need to have more than one possible path to your long ford vision.

Charismatic individuals also have a real self-confidence and belief in what they are doing as well as Being excellent at what they do (after all confidence without competence is essentially psychotic belief, but in a great deal of NLP I’ve seen taught, that seems to be what is installed!).

So how might you grow your own courage ?

Here are some uncomplicated steps to boost your confidence

1 Have a really clear vision – know what you want and create a powerful big picture of it. totally spend time considering about what it will look like, sound like and feel like to have it

2 muse upon about WHY it is so important for you to have it – charismatic people have a unbendable sense of intention. Knowing the reasons for what you do could help drive you into action

3 Create a plan – have a series of simple secrets to take action on and constantly review your outcome and reasons for doing it

4 think about your qualities – what are your strengths, skills and abilities that will help you get your big picture. If you aren’t sure, ask a friend what they muse upon your strengths are. it’s often amazing that we don’t recognize to ourselves our true resources and strengths

5 join others in your big picture – get worked up about your big picture and communicate it with other people – get them excited about the big picture also. When you have rapport with other people and get excited about your vision, other people can get excited also – you’ll inspire a real charisma starting to flow from you.

Starting NLP Training and hypnotherapy in London was one of the rapidest ways I have discovered to develop charisma.

 

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