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Post-Breakup – Is It Right To Try And Rekindle The Flames?

By Guest Author On January 7, 2011 Under Improve Your Life, Improve Your Self Esteem, Law of Attraction, Self Improvement, Setting Goals, Success Secrets

Are you really struggling after a romance separation? Well you’re not alone. Anyone who says it’s easy to deal with a separation is either faking it or they were never truly having difficulties in love. The truth is, when a relationship breaks up, there is often a lot of heartache and shock. How you deal with that is entirely dependent on whether you want to rekindle your romance or you simply want to find a way to go forward and live your life without having your ex.

Assuming you really want to make up with your ex, there are some easy steps that you can take to make this happen. Obviously there will be plenty of days and weeks when you are on your own after a romance breakup, but the last thing that you should do during this time is to panic and despair.

What’s good to know is that it is these days and weeks, that will prepare you for a successful make-up with your ex and, more significantly, help you keep them. So accept that your romantic relationship has broken up and do so without panicking. 

Your subsequent move should be to start thinking about what went completely wrong. The only way you are going to successfully make up with your ex, is if you explore honestly and clearly, what went completely wrong. If you made a mistake and don’t know how to put things right, then that’s the primary thing you’ll have to deal with. If you were unfaithful to your ex then you need to explore for yourself why. If your mistake was that you didn’t spend enough time with your ex, then you need to look closely at your schedule and decide what you can change to prove to your ex that you are serious about them.

An additional point that you should keep in mind is that for some people it’s all too easy to stick with what they are aware of rather than take that leap and carry on with their lives. After a relationship breakup ask yourself these questions: “Do you genuinely want to make up with your ex because you love them?  Do you want to make up with your ex because it is easier than moving on?”

To answer these questions truthfully you will truly have to do some soul-searching. Above all, don’t try and rekindle a toxic romantic relationship. The unknown is often scary, but if your romance was not good for you or your ex, then you should really think about moving on. This will take bravery, but in the long term it will be the best thing to do.

Whatever you decide to do following a romantic relationship split up, remember, you do have a golden opportunity to genuinely stop and think and take into account which way you want to go: do you want to rekindle the relationship or is it time to move on?

For more data on recovering from breakups, and dating and relationships overall, search phrases like “double your dating“, “david deangelo double your dating” and “david deangelo mystery“. Doing this, you’ll come across a good deal of worthwhile advice on how to find and maintain a great romance. 

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