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Avoiding Divorce from Day one of Your Marriage

By Guest Author On June 16, 2011 Under Improve Your Life, Improve Your Self Esteem, Law of Attraction, Self Improvement, Setting Goals, Success Secrets

Yearly, the amount of cases of divorce continues to rise alarmingly. There are also numerous cases of couples who show their desires to not live together any longer. Many spouses seem to agree that their disagreements can no longer be given any solution. And so they just run to their attorneys and start the divorce process faster than they said “I do.”

Blinded with the courtship rituals, admiration, even the wedding favors and wedding banquet, lovers at times are likely to forget that they should fortify their relationship as soon as day one of their union as a wedded couple.

And fortification begins with good communication. Accept the fact, though, that men aren’t as open with their feelings when compared to women. Women have support groups and friends who are there for them if things don’t go as planned. Men seldom have these – they often just escape into the safety of their shells and resolve problems on their own. In order to overcome this, women should take the move to talk with their men. Make sure that you don’t judge him as he pours out his feelings – learn to listen with your heart.

Next to communication, every couple should also be good friends. Not even the most costly and unique wedding favors, food and wine could secure your relationship against temptations and misunderstandings. Be intimate, not only in bed, but more so in your friendship. And no friendship flourishes without respect and kindness.

When your spouse starts recommending divorce, you must request for them to slow down. Simply tell them that other lovers have passed this test before and end up victorious. Remind them of the headaches brought on by money and time issues once the divorce proceedings commence to push through. Tell them that you’re better than all this and you must make amends.

As soon as you see any difference in your marriage, make sure to bridge them instantly. Always function as a team – from minor to major decisions, you must always agree before trudging on. This is a great method to becoming a solid couple since you always try to work together. When things do not seem to work, just look back to the day when your eyes both lit up as you decided on a unique wedding favor for your guests.

The last tip that should keep divorce at bay is pretty simple – do all you can to stay attractive. Hit the gym, live a healthy lifestyle, and choose clothes that suit your body shape. Since temptations are numerous, you can deter this type of marital issue if you give your spouse what he/she truly wants – physically and even emotionally.

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