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My motivation to look for work is terrible, but my self esteem is low too help?

By Guest Author On May 25, 2010 Under Self Help Tips

At the moment i’m unemployed and i’m not really doing much to change my situation. I hand in cv’s to certain places, but i’m not actually getting myself "out there" so i can find a job ASAP. I am literally just going along nice and easy, and waiting for a job to come up. It’s ridiculous because i know i am doing it, but i still insist on being this way. My other problem i have which is a big part of the reason i’m lacking motivation to look for work is because i am overweight, so therefore i have really low self esteem and confidence. I had some money saved up anyway, so i started at the gym and i have lost weight, but not enough and i still feel self conscious about my looks. I know it’s stupid to not want to work because of the way i look, but i also avoid jobs that would mean me dealing with lots of people as this would make me very self conscious because i would be worrying what people said or thought. Please help because i have been unemployed now for months!

Because people need to add things to the basket that they think is them they see their jobs as part of their identity which of course is as silly as having a car or woman or man or house that represents their identity too. In your heart you know the truth is that you are so much more than a way of making money to eat or bu stuff, in your heart you know the truth that you are so much more than your excess body weight, in your heart you know that these things are society’s constructs that they are not real, Do you really think that a job makes a person or their body makes up who they are inside, everybody plays lip service to the truth when they say they know this, but when they say it they say only with their mind not their heart.

IYou should of course be very positive with your mind and actions as you have had the inner courage to see that your weight makes you unhappy and that you have started to make changes in that direction, go the extra mile and take away the fear of getting out there, don’t just imagine being at work really see yourself in your heart as you would truly like, belief is the power of the universe that manifests our consciousness into reality. Enjoy your life and never ever use the judgements of this twisted backwards Society, see you inner light as a spirit and soul, no ‘The self’ that is the real truth and always will be.

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5 comments - add yours
Angel Eyes

May 25, 2010

Greetings from the Tropics of South Florida

Well you are in a dilemma that most of the world is in right now. The weight could be one issue, but it isn’t the only one. Being out in the work force, dealing with strangers you don’t know nor trust and there will be back stabbers in the group. All of this combined makes you want to go to your bedroom put your head under the covers and tell the world to go away.

The extra weight is attributed to comfort foods, and we are all feeling it. You have to look in the mirror and face the facts that the bills will still be coming to the door and you can’t avoid them unless you like to go without, Have you thought about getting a room mate ? Someone to share some of the load. Who knows you might meet someone to pal around with, and help take you out of this brain fog, your drowning in. There are lots of people un-employed now, and plenty of people down sizing. And, we’re not just talking about weight here. Maybe it could help relieve you from some of your problems.

Because reading between the lines you are depressed as well. Which slows the metabolizer down
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lkmkn

May 25, 2010

Did you know in the United Kingdom that 17% of men and 21% of women are obese?

Did you also know that another 32% of women and 46% of men are overweight?

That means 58% of your population has weight problems. They have reportedly TRIPLED since 1980.

In your country it is slightly more normal to have weight problems than to not have them! Given the trend, it is only going to become more and more common too!

So the insecurity you feel about your weight is also felt by over half of the people you meet!
Don’t let it get you down.
You’re looking for a job, and trying to change your lifestyle.

That is awesome. You should have more pride in yourself for handling difficult situations.

You’ll find a job, just keep searching and improving bit by bit!
References :
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/1170787.stm

Teddy

May 25, 2010

join the gym and get a job. within 2 months youll be a tank. people will look at you as the muscle guy.
or maybe join the army. its an instant job, youll get into shape and youll build up your self eesteem
good luck:D
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Tao

May 25, 2010

Because people need to add things to the basket that they think is them they see their jobs as part of their identity which of course is as silly as having a car or woman or man or house that represents their identity too. In your heart you know the truth is that you are so much more than a way of making money to eat or bu stuff, in your heart you know the truth that you are so much more than your excess body weight, in your heart you know that these things are society’s constructs that they are not real, Do you really think that a job makes a person or their body makes up who they are inside, everybody plays lip service to the truth when they say they know this, but when they say it they say only with their mind not their heart.

IYou should of course be very positive with your mind and actions as you have had the inner courage to see that your weight makes you unhappy and that you have started to make changes in that direction, go the extra mile and take away the fear of getting out there, don’t just imagine being at work really see yourself in your heart as you would truly like, belief is the power of the universe that manifests our consciousness into reality. Enjoy your life and never ever use the judgements of this twisted backwards Society, see you inner light as a spirit and soul, no ‘The self’ that is the real truth and always will be.
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aNewBorNbeLieF@37

May 25, 2010

There are Laws in place for things like Discrimination, Use them, don’t be Shy about it. that wont get you any where. These Laws really do work, but you have to be the one to use them. no one is going do this for you. A person only has so many friends that they can turn to. Once you have used these friends up, it makes it a lot harder to get more. Don’t be the person that no one wants to run into, because they are always needing money. get off the couch and step up to the plate dude, feeling sorry for yourself will get you nowhere, and it pushes your friends and family away. a good personality will get you farther than anything. Look around and study what others do to make others like them, or what makes you like them. tips: hold your chin up, and look in a persons eyes when you are directing them, never talk about anything when you are not sure how to respond, don’t make up stories, it makes it harder to cover when you are caught in a lie, never enter a conversation with out prior knowledge about the subject, only talk about things that pertain to the task at hand, or whatever project your job has you doing. no one wants to pay you for talking. HOPE THIS HELPS, LATER DUDE.
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DONT JOIN THE SERVICES UNLESS YOU ARE SURE YOU CAN HANDLE IT. IF U CAN ITS A GOOD CAREER, GFI&GL