158. Your Esteeming Self — NLP EFT Robert Smith

You can do what you …
You can do what you do know and how you know that YOU are producing your seemingly low self-esteem. Esteem is what you keep affirming about yourself. Your esteem comes from how you represent yourself inside yourself with memories and events. Change all bad ones and make them good. Peace Robert

Great video! What …
Great video! What do we do when we didn*t remember all the memories that we have until the present, memories that made a negative impact on us and caused us low self esteem? Will the tapping be effective if we tap only on the “events” that we remember? Because something big like low self esttem must have a lot of negative memories attaced to it.

wow wow wow that is …
wow wow wow that is just simply amazing i am stunned that i get it and now i can change the emotion of how where and when thanks love and light ellen

When you burn your …
When you burn your fingers you remember the pain to protect yourself from the same experience in the future. The same mechanism works between our conscious and unconscious mind.Negative experiences are “hidden” in our unconscious and are acting as our protection mechanism against our reality and all the stress that is coming from it. This protection that’s coming from our unconscious is accepted as the “self”.When we change that,we can clean out easily. Painful identification = painful life.

You tap on yourself …
You tap on yourself until you have peace with it and stand up for yourself. They have problems and let go of yours. Robert

Robert, does this …
Robert, does this mean that if someone treats us badly in words or deeds, we’re not supposed to react? Arum

Robert, you said,” …
Robert, you said,”sometimes I don’t clear it out” Why not? Arum

This is a great …
This is a great segment, “I GOT IT”! I especially liked your view on the “saboteur within” not existing, it’s just the bad memories creating the reaction to situations. There’s a Dr. John Mace doing stuff in Australia that’s cool too. He calls it the Mace Method, you can Google him.
I just love your EFT method and how you view our “stuff”, great going… keep it up!

Hi Robert, I have a …
Hi Robert, I have a question about FasterEFT certification that is flashed across the screen of this video. I checked on your site and did not find any information on certification. When will certification become available? thank you very much for your work. I look forward to learning more.

I tapped 3 times on …
I tapped 3 times on negative situations more than 150 , cleared huge amount of aspects , but still its not good.

yes, but how to do …
yes, but how to do it ? what to do ?

You must realize it …
You must realize it is you who is producing the panic feeling by what you are looking at in your mind. It is based on what you feel about yourself and your experiences. You must change the what it is you are doing within you.

Robert,
did you …
Robert,
did you have a client who couldnt get rid of some pain, panic attack ?
Because its my case. When I am in danger or only see nice girl or imagine , I feel strong stab in my chest…
I tried to tap on this feeling, to listen what it say and tap on that, to imagine what it is, to accept it and let it go so lots of ways, but it is still there…
What should I do ? thanks

w r o n g
w r o n g

If it is in you …
If it is in you then it seems real to you. Even if it never occurred because your unconscious mind can not tell if it is real. Making it positive reaps many rewards.

What happens if you …
What happens if you change your past event that gives you a negative emotional charge- to a positive event even if it didnt occur, The emotional charge would be positive making you feel better and great things will come to you holding that belief

WOW, how this hit …
WOW, how this hit home, I always thought it was my parents in my head but if it is my own, I can and will change it. I can really look at it different now. Thank you very much, This is very powerful.

The anxiety is …
The anxiety is generated from within you so the question is what was it that triggered it? You must make sure you cover all areas within you and those triggers that stir it up. Make sure you have changed each and every memory that supported the anxiety. Change your beliefs you have about it too. It is your response to the world and not the world doing it to you.

I was feeling down …
I was feeling down and now I understand why, the emotions in my past were negative and strong, thanks.

could you help me, …
could you help me, please ?

I am working on my social anxiety half year with faster EFT (and other therapies like BSFF, Sedona method, TAT ), Ive tapped something around 250 negative experiences 3 times.
Sometimes I feel very good around people, but after some days anxiety come back again and again , I cant get rid of it completely. I dont know what to do now and I am hopeless.

Could you give me some suggest or where could be a problem ?

I have my volume …
I have my volume turned all the way up and many of your videos I am straining to hear – not sure if it is on your end or mine. I bring it up as I listed to ALL of your videos and would like to hear them better

While cleaning out …
While cleaning out the negative stuff… How do you build a positive self-esteem when you do not have many strong enough resources (positive experiences) from childhood? When you haven’t experienced much love or attention and so on… how do you reach these levels towards yourself later on?

awesome stuff.
awesome stuff.