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Would You Like To Be The Woman Men Adore?

By Guest Author On May 7, 2011 Under Improve Your Self Esteem, Law of Attraction

Many women fantasize about becoming the women men fall in love with and never want to leave.  But just as many women go about it in the altogether wrong way and end up chasing away one guy after another.  What is the secret?  I’ll show you.

The main thing you have to do is completely change your way of thinking.  The society we live in has done a huge disservice to both men and women by creating unrealistic expectations of what men and women should be.

For instance, throughout most of our history we have been taught that men are overly sexual and that the only thing they want is sex .  We’ve been told that if we give our man enough sex he’ll love us forever and never leave.  That is complete and total nonsense !

Yes men want sex, but surprise, so do women ! Women have just as high of a sex drive as men but the difference is our society has encouraged men to indulge their sex drive while women are told that ‘good girls’ will wait until they’re married.  The result?  Men judge their ‘manliness’ on the number of conquests they make and women are left feeling frustrated that they are forced to pretend they don’t have the same needs .

So if you want to keep your man happy you need to get over the idea that he wants sex all the time or that he wants it more than you.  Men and women really aren’t very different in what they want and need from a relationship.  One word best describes what they want: connection.

As human beings we all need to feel connected to others.  If you can remember that and base your relationship on that fact, you will have a great chance of making your man love you forever.

A connection can be made emotionally, spiritually, and sexually.  The more of these types of connections you and your man have the stronger your relationship will be.  If you want to keep him in love with you stay in love with yourself.  Don’t get sidetracked and put all your desires on hold to accommodate your man .  Most men will be flattered with that in the short term but in the long run they’ll get tired of it .

After all, you have to think about who you were when you met , he was attracted to who you were then so why would you change and become some boring, clingy person now? 

The women men adore and never want to leave know all of theses things.  She gives her man the connections he needs while keeping her own identity intact.  She doesn’t value his needs more than hers, but she lets him know that she is his biggest fan and loves and accepts him unconditionally. If you’ve lost your man and you want to get your ex back, then start making these ideas part of your life today.

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